A few tips on how to make a woman happy

How To Make A Woman Happy

There’s no doubt that women can be hard to understand. It’s all too easy to do or say the wrong and upset them without even realising it. And then when you notice they’re mad, you have to try and guess what you’ve done!

That said though, there are some secrets to understanding women. And once you learn them, life becomes a lot more simple. So here’s a few tips on how to understand women and keep them happy…

How To Understand Women And Make Them Happy

Firstly, you need to treat a woman right. Make her feel loved and appreciated and most of all, special.

Secondly, the element of surprise is a very effective tactic to keeping a woman onside. Surprise her with flowers from time to time. Or other little gifts. They don’t have to be expensive – as the saying goes, it’s the thought that counts. And if she thinks you’re thinking of her, she’ll be happy.

Indeed, if money’s tight, you don’t have to spend anything at all. Take her for a nice trip to the countryside or to a different town just window shopping, depending on her preferences. Just the fact that you’ve thought about her and are doing something different to break the routine will keep you in her good books.

Thirdly, make sure she’s the center of attention. This is especially true when out on a date, or out with friends in a group. Don’t neglect her to chat to your friends or other people, but keep her involved in the conversation.

Lend her your coat if it’s cold, be the gentleman. Women like that sort of thing. So if you’re getting a taxi home together, hold the door for her while she climbs in and out.

Fourthly, listen to her. Don’t just nod and let whatever she’s saying wash over you. Take an active interest and ask follow up questions to what she says, to keep the conversation flowing. And show empathy and sympathy where appropriate.

Finally, and maybe most importantly, be open and honest. Don’t lie. Ever. You’re likely to get found out at some point, no matter how good a liar you think you are. If she knows she can trust you, she’s far less likely to get jealous, mad, whatever.

How To Be The Alpha Male

Be The Alpha Male

Body language is vitally important in just about all aspects of life, and no more so when it comes to picking up girls. Even when you’re speaking, only about 10% of your message gets across verbally, with the rest being dictated by your body language. So if you want to have success with your pick up game, you definitely need to learn how to be the alpha male.

How To Be The Alpha Male

Make An Entrance

Giving off the air of being the alpha male starts right from the moment you first walk into a bar or club. You need to exude confidence, and even cockiness and arrogance, as you make an entrance. You basically want to give off the air of thinking that you own the place.

So you need to enter with your shoulders back, your chest pushed out and your head held up high. You should be relaxed and have a smile on your face.

If you’re with some girls, you should link arms with them and laugh and joke with them. This is particularly important because to other women in the bar who watch you enter, it gives off the signal you must be a cool and interesting guy because other girls are already showing an interest in you. And if the girls you’re with are laughing along with you, it shows that you’re a fun guy to be with.

And that will pique the interest of any watching girls and make them want to meet you to find out what you’re all about.

If you’re out with a group of male friends, you still want to make the same sort of self-confident entrance. Indeed, you need to make sure you out-alpha male your friends. This doesn’t mean you show them up or make fools of them.

You still want to enter the place laughing and joking with them, you just need to make sure you give off enough subtle signals that you’re the most alpha male among them. There are a variety of ways that you can do this, for example:

  • When they all sit down, you remaining standing so you appear bigger and more dominating than them,
  • When you talk to your male friends, place your hand on their shoulder. This will seem friendly to them, but to any observing women it will make you appear dominant.

Claim Your Space

Now that you’ve made an entrance and shown yourself to be interesting and dominant, the next thing you need to do is claim your space. Here what you’re doing is marking your territory. It’s best if you can do this in the middle of the room rather than hiding away in a corner somewhere. So move to the center of the room and mark your territory.

You can do this by putting your drink down on a table or your jacket on bar stool, for example, or simply by sitting on a couch or chair. You want to mark as much territory as you can, i.e. to take up as much space as possible, because the more territory you claim as yours, the more of an alpha male you’ll appear.

As you move to the center of the room, keep the same cocky air of self confidence that you displayed when you first entered. You might not think any women are watching you at this point, but be assured that they are. If you don’t believe this, just observe some groups of girls the next time you’re in a bar. When they’re not chatting, they’re all keeping an eye on the door and watching closely whoever comes in.

Continue Your Display

Now you’ve made an entrance and claimed your space, you need to continue with your display of confidence and popularity. So get yourself and your friends a beer and go round your friends chatting to them and joking and laughing with them. As you move around, make sure you keep a look out for any girls making prolonged eye contact with you and be ready to make your move.

A Few Things To Avoid

There are a few things you should definitely avoid doing if you want to appear as the dominant alpha male, for example:

  • Don’t hold your drink in front of your chest. This is a classic sign of unapproachability – you’re putting up barriers, when you need to be giving off signals that you’re ready to be approached.
  • Don’t stand with your hands in your pockets. You need to look confident, but hands in pockets is a sure sign of nervousness and lack of confidence. You can stand with your thumbs in your pockets (or your belt loop) with your hands hanging down, if you like.
  • Don’t stand pigeon-toed. This is another sign that you’re closed off to any approach. Instead, stand with your toes pointing slightly outwards.


It’s not difficult to learn how to be the alpha male but you may need to practice if you lack natural self-confidence. Follow the advice in this article though, and you’ll soon be well on your way to being the dominant member of your group and so attracting the attention of the girls.

The Importance Of Eye Contact

The Importance Of Eye Contact

If there’s one element of body language that’s more important than any other to become good at it if you want to find success picking up girls then it’s eye contact. Of course, all body language is important but mastering eye contact is vital to your chances of success.

Why Eye Contact Is Important

The reason for this is that it’s normally the first indication you get that she’s interested in you. Her eyes are what really let you know what’s going on – after all, they don’t refer to the eyes as “the window to the soul” for nothing.

Unless you’re incredibly lucky, a beautiful woman isn’t going to just come up to you and tell you outright she’s interested in you. She lets you know she’s interested through her body language, including her eyes. So you have to be able to read the messages and signals that she’s sending out to you or you’ll never get anywhere.

And you have to be able to have confidence that you’re reading the signals right, or you may start to worry about being rejected and let nerves overcome you. It’s only by truly understanding eye contact that you can avoid this.

What Eye Contact Tells You

Think about how you, probably subconsciously, let a girl you’ve never met know you’re interested in her. You probably look across the room and when she catches your glance, you hold your gaze longer than normal. This is sending out a sure signal that you’re interested. And guess what? If she doesn’t look away but also holds the eye contact, she’s letting you know back that she’s also interested in you too.

Now if this happens, you should narrow your eyes slightly (don’t squint, or you’ll look like an idiot!) and keep up the eye contact. After a short time look away. You don’t want to hold the eye contact too long, or you’ll just end up looking like some sort of creep staring at her.

Strike While The Iron’s Hot

At this point, you know she’s definitely interested and you should go over and approach her. Don’t fall into the trap of continually trying to make sure she’s definitely interested by repeating the process of catching her eyes and holding the contact over and over. If you do this, she’ll soon lose interest. The first time you hold her gaze is enough to tell you she’s interested and you should strike while the iron is hot.

How To Tell If A Girl Really Likes You

How To Tell If A Girl Really Likes You

Girls can be very difficult to read for many guys, but we’re going to change that for you. After reading these easy tips you;re going to be much better at understanding the signals you are receiving. Which has to be a good thing, right? After all, nobody likes feeling unsure or insecure. And being able to read other’s emotions is a huge help with this. So without further ado, let’s take a look at how to tell if a girl really likes you…

How To Tell If A Girl Really Likes You

It’s not that difficult to tell if a girl really likes you – she’s sure to give off lots of signs. You just need to know what they are so that you can recognize them. Here are a few such signs…

She Returns Your Texts Quickly

When a girl really likes you she will usually be extremely quick to text back. There will be an almost “I can’t get enough of you” vibe, which means she’s protective over your attention. This is always a good sign; a bad sign would be constant excuses on why she can’t answer. Bear in mind that it’s totally understandable to not be able to always text back quick, after all she may be busy. But she should at least be trying and definitely shouldn’t always be late to reply.

She Laughs The Loudest At Your Jokes

When you’re trying to figure out if a girl likes you, her laughter is one of the biggest indicators. Girls just love someone who can make them laugh, so being able to be funny and tell good jokes is always a plus. But if she’s even cracking up at your bad jokes, then you know she’s into you.

She Puts Your Needs Over Hers

Girls by nature can be selfish at times. If you notice her putting a ton of stock into your emotions, she’s a keeper. A girl who actually cares if you’re comfortable, stressed, annoyed, etc. cares more than most. The extra attention to your needs is a great sign that she likes you and wants you to be happy (in order to keep you around).

Constant Touching

If she’s constantly grabbing your shirt, body, face, then you can pretty much bet she’s into you. Most girls like to initiate physical contact with a guy they like. The constant playing and games means she’s trying to give you a sign.

By paying attention to these signs you will start learning a lot more. Pretty soon you’ll be able to tell pretty quickly if a girl is into you or not.

How To Flirt With A Girl Over Text

How To Flirt With A Girl Over Text

When flirting with a girl over text, it’s much more impersonal than if you’re right there in person. So there are certain techniques you have to use. Whatever your ultimate aim is in texting the girl – whether it be a date, a relationship or just to get her attention – you can’t just rush in headlong.

So here’s a few tips on how to flirt with a girl over text…

Flirting With A Girl Over Text

The main thing to consider is that you should never be boring and/or predictable. Keep it funny, fresh and exciting.

So never, ever start a conversation with things such as “Hi, how are you?” or “Hi, how’s your day been?”


And don’t keep repeating the same sorts of questions. Mix it up to keep her on her toes.

Be Personal

Another good tip is that you should try and keep the conversation as personal as possible due to the inherent impersonal nature of texting. So use her name as much as possible. And if you’ve got a cute nickname for her that you can use, that’s all the better.

And make sure you use terms like “we” and “us” as much as possible too. This builds a bond between you and she’ll automatically start to think of the two of you together.

Use Compliments

Good old compliments still work wonders too – the saying “Flattery will get you nowhere” is definitely wrong when it comes to girls! Every girl likes to be told how great she is or how good she looks. So tell her!

Of course, you have to be genuine when you’re complimenting her as girls are very adept at spotting fake compliments. But if you’re texting her, presumably you like her and so your compliment will be genuine anyway. Just make sure it comes across as though you really mean it.

Add A Little Intrigue

Another thing you can do is to keep the conversation going by being a little secretive and mysterious. So for example, if she asks you how your day went, don’t just tell her. And certainly don’t just reel off a boring list of things you did step by step. Instead, add a little intrigue. So you might say something like, “Actually, something amazing happened” or “Actually, you’ll never guess what happened to me today.” Or if nothing amazing did happen, try something like “I can’t believe how rude people can be.” Something that will peek her interest and make her ask more questions.

Tease Her (Gently!)

Teasing is also a great way to flirt with a girl over text. Of course, you have to do it in a nice, funny way. Don’t just criticize her and make nasty comments! So call her a cute and funny nickname, or tease her about something funny she did some time you were both somewhere together. This has the added benefit of making her thing about times you had fun together, and this makes her feel closer to you.

Get Suggestive

Of course, at some point you’re going to want to move things along a little. Again don’t rush into things, but just start being a little more suggestive in your texts. Make sure you monitor her responses so you can ease off if you sense her getting defensive.

One good way of getting more suggestive is to deliberately misconstrue something innocent that she says. Make it seem like she was being rude and pretend to be shocked.


Follow these tips about how to flirt with a girl over text and you’re sure to make good progress with the girl of your dreams!